10 Signs That Someone Is Totally Not Worth Your Time. Run Away Now!
People often discuss having many people in their lives stop talking and turn on them. A former coworker became super fast friends with someone, then we don't talk anymore within weeks. I may accept once or twice, but not 4-5 times...not everyone else.”
SPEAKING ABOUT HAVING LOTS OF PEOPLE
NOT LISTENING
“They don't listen to what you say and respond accordingly; they only wait for you to stop talking so they can talk about whatever they want.”
SAYING NEGATIVE THINGS ABOUT OTHERS
I've seen a lot of answers along the lines of “when they say negative things about others” (which I agree with), but for me, a huge red flag is when someone can't let others shine.
TELLING EVERYTHING AS A JOKE
“Belittling their SO in front of people but insisting it’s a joke every time! Sadly in this situation, I used to be the belittled SO.”
ACTING LIKE A BEST FRIEND AT FIRST MEET
"They act like your best friend when you don't know them at all, and then they ask for money."
EXPECTING YOU TO BE SO ENGAGING
"They don't really listen to you or care about what you have to say, but they expect you to be totally interested in what they say and act upset if you aren't."
TALK ONLY ABOUT THEMSELVES
Whenever they are only concerned with themselves, they make mistakes.
MONOPOLIZING A CONVERSATION
When they monopolise a conversation, steer it so you end up seeing a phone full of photos, engage in a whole monologue about their health or relationship issues, and brag about themselves or their family.
LYING EASILY
Only two men I know lied about their ages when we met. They were abusive and unpleasant (I dated one and knew his girlfriend). I avoid people who lie easily, even over trivial matters, because they have complex psychological issues.”
GIVING TOO MUCH INFORMATION
Too much info too fast. People with poor boundaries tend to reveal too much about themselves. Speaking from experience. Im recovering from poor boundaries.”